Can you get K to help you out my making sure you and your Dad are NEVER there on the same day, the same shift?
He offered to do this actually, double check our schedules. He is kind of limited on what he can and cannot do/say because of his profession now intersecting with my private life. Like, I texted him to ask if he could check for my dad in the system, just to be sure that my dad was right about what clinic he was at, and told K the details my dad had given me thus far. He texted back, "I cannot give specifics, but I can verify that the information you have received so far is correct." Like he has to be careful about confidentiality and all that. Which is another suckfest because K and I have never been careful about what we say to each other, we can always say anything. And now he has to think before he speaks, like, "Oh, is this about her dad? I better think about what I'm saying," instead of just us being able to talk openly about my family issues. It pisses me off so much.
They say Charles Manson was very charming, too.
Manson just got approved for a marriage license to marry some 28 year old groupie. That does not make me feel better! (seriously though, with my dad, it's that whole 'abusers can be so charming' thing' ugh.)
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He offered to do this actually, double check our schedules. He is kind of limited on what he can and cannot do/say because of his profession now intersecting with my private life. Like, I texted him to ask if he could check for my dad in the system, just to be sure that my dad was right about what clinic he was at, and told K the details my dad had given me thus far. He texted back, "I cannot give specifics, but I can verify that the information you have received so far is correct." Like he has to be careful about confidentiality and all that. Which is another suckfest because K and I have never been careful about what we say to each other, we can always say anything. And now he has to think before he speaks, like, "Oh, is this about her dad? I better think about what I'm saying," instead of just us being able to talk openly about my family issues. It pisses me off so much.
They say Charles Manson was very charming, too.
Manson just got approved for a marriage license to marry some 28 year old groupie. That does not make me feel better! (seriously though, with my dad, it's that whole 'abusers can be so charming' thing' ugh.)