The upside, hopefully, would be that you wouldn't have appointments scheduled at the same time, right? So at least you don't have to run into him and witness that behavior?

This is true. And K has offered to make sure I am never schedules at the same time as Dad, but still, I have managed for so long now to keep him in the one area of my life and I am so out of practice with dealing with him right there in the center of my life and I just don't know if I can handle going back. I guess I don't have much of a choice though. I see my counselor tomorrow to make a game plan - so moving forward. <3