What total bullshit. I think having kids and running a house is one of the hardest, most full on jobs there is. It's full time, no breaks.

When me and my brother were little my mum was in the hospital for a long time (brain hemorrhage) And my dad told her after he couldn't believe how hard a job it was, how it never stopped.

I'm offended for all the same reasons as you. Your brother does a hard job, people should get that, and they should get that it's not automatically the woman's job, or her 'place'

I've probably told you I trained as a chef, I got enough women belong in the kitchen, oh look she knows her place, make me a sandwich jokes to last a life time ugh

your brother sounds awesome.