Ugh. Just...ugh. This is so stressful even *reading* it! WTF?!
The thing is, if she refuses to help herself, she shouldn't be allowed to manipulate you into doing it. As painful as it is, you're right that you need your life back and get in control of this mess. If she were doing her exercises and not lying to the doctor (!!!) and at least making an effort to get better, that would be one thing. But it seems to me that she has decided to shut down and leave everything about her care to you guys! That must be incredibly frustrating for you.
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Date: 2016-03-28 04:36 pm (UTC)The thing is, if she refuses to help herself, she shouldn't be allowed to manipulate you into doing it. As painful as it is, you're right that you need your life back and get in control of this mess. If she were doing her exercises and not lying to the doctor (!!!) and at least making an effort to get better, that would be one thing. But it seems to me that she has decided to shut down and leave everything about her care to you guys! That must be incredibly frustrating for you.
*hugs* that you get through this.