Poor Papa Bear. Let's hope the vet can fix what's ailing him and he can get back on his kitteh fooses soon. I know the stress of dealing with a sick cat and not being able to do anything. Butternut was sick a few years ago where she was throwing up a lot and wouldn't eat *or* drink. It was horrible. I am also a wimp and cried over her non-stop. She eventually got better (and we never found out what the cause was) but I was a wreck for like two weeks! Scritches to Papa.